Professional

My professional life is always suppressed by my social skills. I rarely relate to people professionaly, I ususally make friends and then work with them. The possitive side is obvious, I am working in my comfort zone. No competition, not enough! aggretion and a perfect work environment. No complain, I've been always paid to walk on the edge of technology. But, is it enough? What happens to my profession down the road? Am I always want to work in window-less offices as a ... ... ... Design Engineer?
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The last time that my social and professional sides were fighting was when I was interviewing a candidate much older than myself. I was wondering if I have to chat with him and let him talk about his experiences and his life or hammer him with all technical questions to write a neat and professional evaluation sheet. What if he gets offended? What if he gets offended and then get hired as my coleague? I still get blame from my old students because I was serious when I was grading their homeworks. May be it is time to let my professional side plays a little bit. If the social side get suppressed he can always write in this weblog?

Last Temptation

My old days buddy has been forced to marry. If you skip from your mom, mother nature will catch you. Life is funny the way it is. Just lay back and relax, things are happening as they should.
Bachelor party is on this weekend. We used to fantasize a lot for this moment, but things turn to happen in a rush. We had to leave those dreams and chose Vegas for the party. There is no time, everything should happen within nine months. That's the deadline defined by the mother nature.
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Nothing is forever, each time you are in a sliding window. Window slides and leaves you with friends, regrest, pictures and memories. whatever you do you cannot stay in the same window. The window is sliding; even if you move with it, not everybody in the window does. You end up in a new window sooner or later. Lay back and relax.
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Today I read in a business report "Paranoid survives". Don't buy it, lay back and relax.